Well, Marcus went through with it. This past weekend he was married. This was also my first time coordinating a wedding. Actually co-coordinating. TWalker & my cousin, Jo "assisted" me. I was so concerned, but everything seemed to fall into place. It was beautiful. The music was well selected and perfect for each event. I learned a lot from this experience, but the most important thing is probably that I don't want to coordinate weddings for a living. There is too much stress and indecisiveness. I hope to add a photo within the next week or so.
It's been awhile since we've talked. So much has happened. I'll have to fill you in later. I'm pretty busy right now. The next major event is next weekend. My husband's family reunion in Houston, Texas. Details later...
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
History Made and Other Things!!!
It's been a long time since we've talked. My goodness! Times goes so fast. Let's just recap everything. July I attended a city reunion down home and a family reunion on my husband's side on the North side. I've had a birthday! Happy Birthday to me... My husband & I went to Florida for the 2nd time this year-Orlando. My mother-in-law & her husband went also. She had me shopping. I haven't shopped like that in 5 or 6 years! Her husband was begging the security guard to kick us out a store. I will admit we had been in the store almost 3 hours! This is quite unusual for me. I HATE shopping. I mean hate it. I despise the crowds, lines, bad organization, deceiving sale prices, bad kids running, annoying people who don't put stuff back where they got it from, bothersome salesman that when you need them, you can't find them, etc... BUT this experience was different. I don't know if it was because we were in Florida or what. I had a ball! I spent almost $250 in that one store. The Palisades Resort was awesome! BRAND NEW!!!
I found out my cousin is pregnant AGAIN. This is her 2nd & she's only been married about 2 1/2 years. Better her than me.
Last month I went to Washington State. I had never been to this part of the county before. I had hoped to see a childhood friend & her family, but due to scheduling issues, it didn't work out. Vancouver was absolutely beautiful. This was a conference and maybe it was just the people attending the conference & not the city in general, BUT they're kind of different. They reminded me of the 60's and the love fest. Don't get me wrong, it was a nice experience, but quite different. Just about everyone had on mountain climbing like shoes or mules; no one-I mean no one had on NIKEs, but me. Everyone seem to have a laid back attitude, no worries or concerns, just nonchalant-UNTIL you start to talk about the ozone layer, or endangered species, or recycling or protecting pets from abuse... This is when they get really passionate. I was able to get some great unique ideas for instruction. So mission accomplished.
A long time friend and co-worker retired. She had been working where I work for 30 years & 27 days! That's a long time to be on the same job. I'm sure she had trials & tribulations-some I witnessed, but she endured. She is truly a virtuous woman-professional, Godly, soft spoken... I miss her already. She was our plant doctor. When a plant wasn't looking well in the office, we would put it in the hospital-Mary's office. She'd take it for 2 weeks & it would come back good as new. She has the most beautiful children; all five were at her retirement party-even though 3 live out of state. Family is very important to her and she has instilled that into her children & grandchildren.
This month on November 4, history was made again. Barack Obama was elected as the 44th President of the United States of America. Many felt that one day this would happen, but I think most never thought it would happen in this lifetime & certainly not in this year's election. He is absolutely phenomenal! People and leaders from around the world rejoiced when it was announced. I laughed at those who called me, but I cried too. I was so full. I had this big lump in my throat. When I watched his speech I felt every word he spoke. I saw Oprah in the crowd crying... Jessie Jackson crying... some wondered if he cried because it wasn't him or if it was genuine and he cried because a piece of Martin's dream has been realized. I say a piece because we have yet so far to go...
I cried because I had forgotten or lost sight of what my God can do. All things are possible to him that believe. I guess I had actually stopped believing. I had grown faint and weary. I don't believe I lost hope in God, but in the idea that if you work hard, you would succeed. There have been so many roadblocks to my dream and I've seen so many injustices. I repent... By Barack being elected, my hope has been renewed. I can honestly tell my nephews and niece and other relatives that anything truly can happen, when you believe & work hard-no matter what color you are, no matter where you came from. A local African-American college's president had a baby boy on 11/4 and decided to name him after Barack; the baby's name is Benjamin Barack. It's been reported on CNN that all over the world, people are naming their babies after Barack & many with twins are naming them Michelle & Barack. That's honorable.
It's a new feeling... I feel like it's a new day. It seems the air is different. people I work with seem different, especially those of the lighter persuasion. I've been gone out of state a week & I was thinking that was it, but I don't think so... Whatever the case, what's done is done.
I feel so blessed to have witnessed this historical event, better yet, I feel blessed to have been a part of the process and able to help make it happen by casting my vote for Barack. Many of my counter parts did not vote for him and I really think it was just because of the color of his skin. They claim is was qualifications, but beg to differ. Palin was no more qualified than Barack. I'm going to leave that right there.
I recently found out that a relative of my husband is dating another relative of his. They are totally not related, BUT my husband just thinks this is not right. Let's say, for instance, your mother falls in love with your father-in-law. Just seems strange to my husband. I don't see a problem... I'll have to think on it awhile longer. What if your sister wanted to marry your father in law? would their children be your husband's stepsister or brother or his niece & nephew? :) Just something to think about...
Well, I'd better go. I hope it won't be almost 5 months before we talk again.
I found out my cousin is pregnant AGAIN. This is her 2nd & she's only been married about 2 1/2 years. Better her than me.
Last month I went to Washington State. I had never been to this part of the county before. I had hoped to see a childhood friend & her family, but due to scheduling issues, it didn't work out. Vancouver was absolutely beautiful. This was a conference and maybe it was just the people attending the conference & not the city in general, BUT they're kind of different. They reminded me of the 60's and the love fest. Don't get me wrong, it was a nice experience, but quite different. Just about everyone had on mountain climbing like shoes or mules; no one-I mean no one had on NIKEs, but me. Everyone seem to have a laid back attitude, no worries or concerns, just nonchalant-UNTIL you start to talk about the ozone layer, or endangered species, or recycling or protecting pets from abuse... This is when they get really passionate. I was able to get some great unique ideas for instruction. So mission accomplished.
A long time friend and co-worker retired. She had been working where I work for 30 years & 27 days! That's a long time to be on the same job. I'm sure she had trials & tribulations-some I witnessed, but she endured. She is truly a virtuous woman-professional, Godly, soft spoken... I miss her already. She was our plant doctor. When a plant wasn't looking well in the office, we would put it in the hospital-Mary's office. She'd take it for 2 weeks & it would come back good as new. She has the most beautiful children; all five were at her retirement party-even though 3 live out of state. Family is very important to her and she has instilled that into her children & grandchildren.
This month on November 4, history was made again. Barack Obama was elected as the 44th President of the United States of America. Many felt that one day this would happen, but I think most never thought it would happen in this lifetime & certainly not in this year's election. He is absolutely phenomenal! People and leaders from around the world rejoiced when it was announced. I laughed at those who called me, but I cried too. I was so full. I had this big lump in my throat. When I watched his speech I felt every word he spoke. I saw Oprah in the crowd crying... Jessie Jackson crying... some wondered if he cried because it wasn't him or if it was genuine and he cried because a piece of Martin's dream has been realized. I say a piece because we have yet so far to go...
I cried because I had forgotten or lost sight of what my God can do. All things are possible to him that believe. I guess I had actually stopped believing. I had grown faint and weary. I don't believe I lost hope in God, but in the idea that if you work hard, you would succeed. There have been so many roadblocks to my dream and I've seen so many injustices. I repent... By Barack being elected, my hope has been renewed. I can honestly tell my nephews and niece and other relatives that anything truly can happen, when you believe & work hard-no matter what color you are, no matter where you came from. A local African-American college's president had a baby boy on 11/4 and decided to name him after Barack; the baby's name is Benjamin Barack. It's been reported on CNN that all over the world, people are naming their babies after Barack & many with twins are naming them Michelle & Barack. That's honorable.
It's a new feeling... I feel like it's a new day. It seems the air is different. people I work with seem different, especially those of the lighter persuasion. I've been gone out of state a week & I was thinking that was it, but I don't think so... Whatever the case, what's done is done.
I feel so blessed to have witnessed this historical event, better yet, I feel blessed to have been a part of the process and able to help make it happen by casting my vote for Barack. Many of my counter parts did not vote for him and I really think it was just because of the color of his skin. They claim is was qualifications, but beg to differ. Palin was no more qualified than Barack. I'm going to leave that right there.
I recently found out that a relative of my husband is dating another relative of his. They are totally not related, BUT my husband just thinks this is not right. Let's say, for instance, your mother falls in love with your father-in-law. Just seems strange to my husband. I don't see a problem... I'll have to think on it awhile longer. What if your sister wanted to marry your father in law? would their children be your husband's stepsister or brother or his niece & nephew? :) Just something to think about...
Well, I'd better go. I hope it won't be almost 5 months before we talk again.
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Death of a Patriach
June has been a good month. A busy one. I guess the most adventurous has been the death of a patriarch. George Perry W was the Patriarch of the family. He was 93 years young. I have never met a person of this age with so much energy. He was very vibrant, always wanting to go somewhere and do something-he and his girlfriend of over 40 years! He had a good mind too. There are things I can't remember from yesterday, let alone from 50 years ago.
The thing I remember most about him was that he didn't back down from anybody-no matter how big or crazy they were.... :\ I remember one of his nephews coming up on him, acting like they were going to do something. Uncle Perry just grabbed his front pocket like he was gonna pull out a knife. I believe he had one and would use it. This is a trait that has been passed down throughout the generations. I have never know any of them (his brothers & sisters, nieces, nephews, etc..) to back down from a challenge. They always speak with they feel not worrying about consequences. It was such a blessing to know him. It was interesting to see how strong the genes are. There are several family members that look like him-great nieces and nephews.
Anyone who didn't know him probably felt like they did after the funeral. The service was a Homegoing Celebration!
The thing I remember most about him was that he didn't back down from anybody-no matter how big or crazy they were.... :\ I remember one of his nephews coming up on him, acting like they were going to do something. Uncle Perry just grabbed his front pocket like he was gonna pull out a knife. I believe he had one and would use it. This is a trait that has been passed down throughout the generations. I have never know any of them (his brothers & sisters, nieces, nephews, etc..) to back down from a challenge. They always speak with they feel not worrying about consequences. It was such a blessing to know him. It was interesting to see how strong the genes are. There are several family members that look like him-great nieces and nephews.
Anyone who didn't know him probably felt like they did after the funeral. The service was a Homegoing Celebration!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Death of Buddy - Larry Lee
Not too long ago, M Town lost a buddy. Larry Lee was a fun loving person. It had been a few months since we last saw him, but the last time my husband & I, my sister in law, her boyfriend & daughter all went to visit him. Larry Lee had us laughing for 3 or 4 hours straight. That was the type of person he was. We reminisced about days gone by: playing baseball across the street from Ms. Luvenia; about Bawcom's store, the bus station in downtown M Town, Flo burgers and Cherry Sprites at Cricket's... Those were the good ole days.
Larry Lee is gone, but not forgotten... He will be missed, but his laughter, his ability to make us laugh, his giving spirit, will live in us forever.
Larry Lee is gone, but not forgotten... He will be missed, but his laughter, his ability to make us laugh, his giving spirit, will live in us forever.
Class of 1988 20th Year Reunion
Guys! I have been trying to create blogs, but my e-mail & password weren't matching... At any rate, it's on now. A lot has happened since March 13-my last blog. Today I will bring you up to speed on the class reunion we had this past Memorial Day weekend. It was the bomb!
The one thing I got from the interaction of planning this was the way people perceive you is not necessarily the way you are, and the way you think you portray yourself is not necessarily the way people perceive you. There are two sayings: I KNOW YOU BELIEVE YOU UNDERSTOOD WHAT YOU THOUGHT I SAID, BUT I AM NOT SURE YOU REALIZE THAT WHAT YOU HEARD IS NOT WHAT I MEANT. The other saying is: PEOPLE MAY DOUBT WHAT YOU SAY, BUT THEY WILL ALWAYS BELIEVE WHAT YOU DO. Communication is vital to all relationships.
I'm jumping - let me refocus. This weekend was great. Here's an update on the happenings. Friday Night we played Win Lose or Draw-Lakeside Style. Andre & I were the drawers and it was girls against guys. We had to draw people, places, & things associated with being a senior or Lakeside. We had to draw stuff from a diploma to Ms. Reg & Mr. Smith. That was funny & spouses participated too so they didn't feel left out. Saturday, we had to move our site at the park because our reserved areas was flooded out & there was an influx of moccasins!! Not shoes, but SNAKES! I didn't tell everybody why because they probably would have freaked out or not come to the park at all. (Vanessa) :) scary... Two of our former teachers joined us. That was a surprise. Also, on Saturday night @ the banquet, we had a memorial moment piece with a slide show of our deceased classmates & faculty & their family. We played "It's so Hard to Say Goodbye to Yesterday" by Boys to Men. There were some teary eyes. That was really nice. B Wetzler & R Brown did an awesome job with their "sermonettes". R really has changed and you must know it had to be God. He has a beautiful wife who is so sweet and outgoing. B's wife looks like she did when she graduated.
I have heard nothing but good comments from the people I've talked to, but haven't talked to everyone. I pray that at the next one we will double or triple our attendance. If you have any ideas about how we an do that, please let me know.
Not once did I ask "What are you doing now?". I really don't want to know unless you want to tell me. The purpose of this weekend was to get reacquainted, to reminisce, and to have fun. For many it was a time to show that we have really grown up & all the asinine things that caused us to not speak 15-20 years ago, are in the past and do not matter. We must forget those things that are behind & press forward. I learned that a lot of the issues were caused by miscommunication. Now some were done on purpose, but we were young and dumb-most of us. Bottom line is let it go. :)
The rebuttal to me from one person was: Well I don't want to open myself up to being hurt... the character of a person doesn't change. I beg to differ. It does IF the holy spirit is involved. Give them another chance. I have learned the true meaning of love - it is many things, but most definitely it is being able to forgive others when we are wronged over & over & over again. We must remember that we are not perfect either & will need forgiveness.
Bottom line... Let it go. ;)
The one thing I got from the interaction of planning this was the way people perceive you is not necessarily the way you are, and the way you think you portray yourself is not necessarily the way people perceive you. There are two sayings: I KNOW YOU BELIEVE YOU UNDERSTOOD WHAT YOU THOUGHT I SAID, BUT I AM NOT SURE YOU REALIZE THAT WHAT YOU HEARD IS NOT WHAT I MEANT. The other saying is: PEOPLE MAY DOUBT WHAT YOU SAY, BUT THEY WILL ALWAYS BELIEVE WHAT YOU DO. Communication is vital to all relationships.
I'm jumping - let me refocus. This weekend was great. Here's an update on the happenings. Friday Night we played Win Lose or Draw-Lakeside Style. Andre & I were the drawers and it was girls against guys. We had to draw people, places, & things associated with being a senior or Lakeside. We had to draw stuff from a diploma to Ms. Reg & Mr. Smith. That was funny & spouses participated too so they didn't feel left out. Saturday, we had to move our site at the park because our reserved areas was flooded out & there was an influx of moccasins!! Not shoes, but SNAKES! I didn't tell everybody why because they probably would have freaked out or not come to the park at all. (Vanessa) :) scary... Two of our former teachers joined us. That was a surprise. Also, on Saturday night @ the banquet, we had a memorial moment piece with a slide show of our deceased classmates & faculty & their family. We played "It's so Hard to Say Goodbye to Yesterday" by Boys to Men. There were some teary eyes. That was really nice. B Wetzler & R Brown did an awesome job with their "sermonettes". R really has changed and you must know it had to be God. He has a beautiful wife who is so sweet and outgoing. B's wife looks like she did when she graduated.
I have heard nothing but good comments from the people I've talked to, but haven't talked to everyone. I pray that at the next one we will double or triple our attendance. If you have any ideas about how we an do that, please let me know.
Not once did I ask "What are you doing now?". I really don't want to know unless you want to tell me. The purpose of this weekend was to get reacquainted, to reminisce, and to have fun. For many it was a time to show that we have really grown up & all the asinine things that caused us to not speak 15-20 years ago, are in the past and do not matter. We must forget those things that are behind & press forward. I learned that a lot of the issues were caused by miscommunication. Now some were done on purpose, but we were young and dumb-most of us. Bottom line is let it go. :)
The rebuttal to me from one person was: Well I don't want to open myself up to being hurt... the character of a person doesn't change. I beg to differ. It does IF the holy spirit is involved. Give them another chance. I have learned the true meaning of love - it is many things, but most definitely it is being able to forgive others when we are wronged over & over & over again. We must remember that we are not perfect either & will need forgiveness.
Bottom line... Let it go. ;)
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Murder in Montrose
I was shocked to find out there has been a murder in "M" town... a very small town where I grew up. I mean "murder"... Where someone deliberately kills someone. I've heard a lot of rumors surrounding what happened. I just pray for his family; for their strength, increased faith & trust in God...
There was a murder about 25 or so years ago. An older man was stabbed to death. His murder is still unsolved. I just finished making a comment a few days ago to a co-worker that my town hadn't had a murder in 25 years and then boom! we had one. I guess I should have kept my mouth closed.
My husband has a cousin getting married this month. He's older than she is. I hope they get counseling before the big day. Marriage is a HUGE step. It ain't no joke. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband, but it's been work. I know that without Christ, prayer, supplication, fasting, forgiveness, being humble and submissive, the Holy Spirit, the Word of God, our spiritual leaders of our church, and the righteous praying for us, we would not still be together.
Meet The Brown's - another Tyler Perry movie is coming out this month. Our church's married couples are going to see it. I'll have to share how that goes. I always enjoy his movies. The cussing gets on my nerves some times, but the message of the movie gets through. I know the cussing is a part of the character, but does it have to be used in the movie to make a point? Let me hear your comments on that.
Another issue I'd like to hear from you about is "dancing". Is there anything wrong with secular dancing? This is one that teens struggle with. I'd think as long as it is tasteful, with class & not provocative or degrading and it praises the Lord-shouldn't it be OK? let me hear from you...
I'll go for now. Let us continue to pray for our country, for family, for ourselves and for the many challenges we'll face tomorrow and beyond. Holy Spirit grant us wisdom to make the right decisions.
There was a murder about 25 or so years ago. An older man was stabbed to death. His murder is still unsolved. I just finished making a comment a few days ago to a co-worker that my town hadn't had a murder in 25 years and then boom! we had one. I guess I should have kept my mouth closed.
My husband has a cousin getting married this month. He's older than she is. I hope they get counseling before the big day. Marriage is a HUGE step. It ain't no joke. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband, but it's been work. I know that without Christ, prayer, supplication, fasting, forgiveness, being humble and submissive, the Holy Spirit, the Word of God, our spiritual leaders of our church, and the righteous praying for us, we would not still be together.
Meet The Brown's - another Tyler Perry movie is coming out this month. Our church's married couples are going to see it. I'll have to share how that goes. I always enjoy his movies. The cussing gets on my nerves some times, but the message of the movie gets through. I know the cussing is a part of the character, but does it have to be used in the movie to make a point? Let me hear your comments on that.
Another issue I'd like to hear from you about is "dancing". Is there anything wrong with secular dancing? This is one that teens struggle with. I'd think as long as it is tasteful, with class & not provocative or degrading and it praises the Lord-shouldn't it be OK? let me hear from you...
I'll go for now. Let us continue to pray for our country, for family, for ourselves and for the many challenges we'll face tomorrow and beyond. Holy Spirit grant us wisdom to make the right decisions.
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Classmate LR Get-to-Gether 2.29.08
All I can say is we had a ball!! Several classmates were in town this weekend and we got together at Willy D's and the Flying Saucer. This was like a pre-reunion. We really had a nice time. Hope the reunion is even better. Enjoy the photo...
Monday, March 3, 2008
March 2008
We'll I've missed my goal. I didn't get a blog in during the month of February. A lot happened. I went to a Title I conference in Nashville, Valentine's Day came & went, a cousin had a big 70th B-Day Party, attended several basketball games including district tournament and regional basketball tournaments for the Beavers & the Lions. My nephew plays on the Lions team and they're still in it! The final game is this week for the State Championship. I'm very proud. He is a senior and thinks he wants to "go into the services". That's what he calls it. I call it a prison that really limits choices for African-American males. If a young man has an ounce of intelligence or creativity, I wouldn't tell them to go into to the services. Try college & if that doesn't work, then go in the services. I'm tickled as to how he'll like waking up at 5 instead of 12 noon every day. I'd be interested to see if he'll be comfortable in giving up playing XBOX for 10 hours/day; it'll be replaced with running 5 miles, learning discipline, cleaning up, learning to shoot to survive...
Life is full of choices, decisions, & consequences. I really learned this from a cousin who has since passed. We really need to fast forward to the consequences and decide if that's something we really want to do... If the cost for our actions will be worth it... I lost a cousin in February; he was from California. They brought his body back to Arkansas. I thought there would be hundreds of people at his funeral because he had a lot of relatives. It wasn't even like that. I began to wonder who would be at my funeral... What they would say about me... I wonder if my life has said the things I want it to say... How will I know? Just something to think about.
I took the test for Homeland Security. It was cool. A lot of situational questions. As I was sitting there, I wondered what the heck am I doing. Why am I taking this test? Is this something I really want to do? Not really. I'm just disgruntled with my job and planting seeds... seeking other avenues... Hoping God will release me to do something else... Even move somewhere else. I must stay in his will...
We got our taxes done. We are sooooo blessed! I give God the glory. We didn't adopt any kids or lie about anything. God just worked it out. We are givers & the bible says "Give & it shall be given unto you-Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over Men shall give unto your bosom"!
The last weekend in this month was GREAT!! Some classmates & I got together and had a ball. Some said no thanks. I wondered if they just didn't want to be bothered or if for some reason they were ashamed. I hope not. For me the class get togethers and reunion are planned not to get answers to "What are you doing now?" or "How much money are you making?" questions. It is so we can fellowship, reminisce, get away from every day troubles, network, lift each other up, share experiences.
It amazed me and surprised me how some viewed me in school: bossy, serious, a NERD; one of my classmates described me as a breathe of fresh air-something new; vibrant, very outgoing... I must admit I was very serious. A classmate from Silver Springs asked what would I do differently in school. I guess I would have had a little more fun. I was very focused... thought I'd be the 1st African-American female President of the United States of America-long term goal; short term was maybe be governor of my State. Once I got a dose of the real world both these dreams faded. There's a lot of prejudice people in high positions in the State where I'm from. I was so discouraged. Gosh, I've learned so much about dreams & who to share them with & how to put my trust in the Lord-NOT MAN!! If I only knew then what I know now.
That's life-living & learning. It would be really sad to see classmates, or anyone else for that matter, & have them be exactly the same... Still doing what they used to do, saying what they used to say, going where they used to go; that means 20 years would have been wasted! Why be here on this earth if you're not going to grow in some capacity? Not just without growing, but without a purpose. Oh God, why would you keep us here if we didn't have a purpose? If you don't know your purpose, find out what it is & get busy. Time is short. We are only here but for a moment. There's a lot more I'd like to share, but it's late. I hope to get another blog in to make up for February. Later...
Life is full of choices, decisions, & consequences. I really learned this from a cousin who has since passed. We really need to fast forward to the consequences and decide if that's something we really want to do... If the cost for our actions will be worth it... I lost a cousin in February; he was from California. They brought his body back to Arkansas. I thought there would be hundreds of people at his funeral because he had a lot of relatives. It wasn't even like that. I began to wonder who would be at my funeral... What they would say about me... I wonder if my life has said the things I want it to say... How will I know? Just something to think about.
I took the test for Homeland Security. It was cool. A lot of situational questions. As I was sitting there, I wondered what the heck am I doing. Why am I taking this test? Is this something I really want to do? Not really. I'm just disgruntled with my job and planting seeds... seeking other avenues... Hoping God will release me to do something else... Even move somewhere else. I must stay in his will...
We got our taxes done. We are sooooo blessed! I give God the glory. We didn't adopt any kids or lie about anything. God just worked it out. We are givers & the bible says "Give & it shall be given unto you-Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over Men shall give unto your bosom"!
The last weekend in this month was GREAT!! Some classmates & I got together and had a ball. Some said no thanks. I wondered if they just didn't want to be bothered or if for some reason they were ashamed. I hope not. For me the class get togethers and reunion are planned not to get answers to "What are you doing now?" or "How much money are you making?" questions. It is so we can fellowship, reminisce, get away from every day troubles, network, lift each other up, share experiences.
It amazed me and surprised me how some viewed me in school: bossy, serious, a NERD; one of my classmates described me as a breathe of fresh air-something new; vibrant, very outgoing... I must admit I was very serious. A classmate from Silver Springs asked what would I do differently in school. I guess I would have had a little more fun. I was very focused... thought I'd be the 1st African-American female President of the United States of America-long term goal; short term was maybe be governor of my State. Once I got a dose of the real world both these dreams faded. There's a lot of prejudice people in high positions in the State where I'm from. I was so discouraged. Gosh, I've learned so much about dreams & who to share them with & how to put my trust in the Lord-NOT MAN!! If I only knew then what I know now.
That's life-living & learning. It would be really sad to see classmates, or anyone else for that matter, & have them be exactly the same... Still doing what they used to do, saying what they used to say, going where they used to go; that means 20 years would have been wasted! Why be here on this earth if you're not going to grow in some capacity? Not just without growing, but without a purpose. Oh God, why would you keep us here if we didn't have a purpose? If you don't know your purpose, find out what it is & get busy. Time is short. We are only here but for a moment. There's a lot more I'd like to share, but it's late. I hope to get another blog in to make up for February. Later...
Thursday, January 24, 2008
January 2008!
Oops!! I almost didn't make my goal to blog at least once a month. Happy New Year, Everybody! I hope all is well. The holidays went well. I decided not to make any resolutions this year. I did begin even last year to make better decisions: eat the vegetables instead of fried potatoes, to drink water instead of the soda, to focus more on what's good FOR me than what's good TO me... The one thing I have got to work on is exercising! I've tried everything-scheduling it in my outlook like it was an appointment, leaving extra tennis shoes at work, pulling out photos when I wore a size 10... None of this moves me; I just haven't been motivated... Does anybody have any new suggestions!
I've been full speed ahead on planning my 20th Year Class Reunion. I've talked to classmates that I haven't seen since we graduated. I'm sooooo excited and hope everyone will make a point to attend.
In the conversations, I think what has been most interesting is that in some cases, our classmates didn't see us the same way we saw ourselves. One in particular thought she was shy. She still thinks she's shy. None of our classmates, NOT ONE!, saw her as being shy when we were in school. Is that tripped out or what? It just goes to show us that the way we see ourselves is not necessarily the way other receive us. Did that make sense?
I won't hold you long. I do think I forgot to mention that our t-shirts for the reunion are alumni shirts. PLEASE, if you attended or graduated from Lakeside High in Lake Village, PLEASE purchase at least one t-shirt. We have a cool 2-sided design and they are only $15!. Please share this information with family and friends.
I've been so occupied with the reunion that I forgot to mention that my nephew & his mom moved out of state. It's only been a week, but it seems like a lifetime. My heart is empty as his mom was like the daughter I'll never have & he like the "grandson" I'll never have. Did I say grandson? I really miss his running up & down the hall; his laughter when nothing was funny; his knocking on my door in the morning to let me know he was off to daycare; I could go on & on, but I won't. I am so proud of his mom. She's had a lot of challenges, but I pray the 1 1/2 yr of intense spiritual foundation she received from my church & my life-as well as the lessons on warfare & self-encouragement and the lessons on the power of the Word-have prepared her for the battles ahead. She's a fighter... she and her son. They can do it. I can remember her saying "I'm so tired & wish I could go to bed, but I know I have things to do"-and she actually did them. This was a sign of maturity to me. She's come a long way! One way you know when a woman or man becomes a woman or man is they see things that need to be done & don't run to tell you about it-They just do it!
I ask the righteous to pray for her increase in faith, greater strength in the Lord and a more intense focus on the Lord.
Hope to talk to you guys soon!
I've been full speed ahead on planning my 20th Year Class Reunion. I've talked to classmates that I haven't seen since we graduated. I'm sooooo excited and hope everyone will make a point to attend.
In the conversations, I think what has been most interesting is that in some cases, our classmates didn't see us the same way we saw ourselves. One in particular thought she was shy. She still thinks she's shy. None of our classmates, NOT ONE!, saw her as being shy when we were in school. Is that tripped out or what? It just goes to show us that the way we see ourselves is not necessarily the way other receive us. Did that make sense?
I won't hold you long. I do think I forgot to mention that our t-shirts for the reunion are alumni shirts. PLEASE, if you attended or graduated from Lakeside High in Lake Village, PLEASE purchase at least one t-shirt. We have a cool 2-sided design and they are only $15!. Please share this information with family and friends.
I've been so occupied with the reunion that I forgot to mention that my nephew & his mom moved out of state. It's only been a week, but it seems like a lifetime. My heart is empty as his mom was like the daughter I'll never have & he like the "grandson" I'll never have. Did I say grandson? I really miss his running up & down the hall; his laughter when nothing was funny; his knocking on my door in the morning to let me know he was off to daycare; I could go on & on, but I won't. I am so proud of his mom. She's had a lot of challenges, but I pray the 1 1/2 yr of intense spiritual foundation she received from my church & my life-as well as the lessons on warfare & self-encouragement and the lessons on the power of the Word-have prepared her for the battles ahead. She's a fighter... she and her son. They can do it. I can remember her saying "I'm so tired & wish I could go to bed, but I know I have things to do"-and she actually did them. This was a sign of maturity to me. She's come a long way! One way you know when a woman or man becomes a woman or man is they see things that need to be done & don't run to tell you about it-They just do it!
I ask the righteous to pray for her increase in faith, greater strength in the Lord and a more intense focus on the Lord.
Hope to talk to you guys soon!
Friday, December 7, 2007
December 2007 - Announcement
NO, I AM NOT PREGNANT!! I bet you saw announcement & thought, I bet she's pregnant! The announcement is about my class reunion. All the particulars are listed below:
Who? Lakeside Class of 1988
What? 20th Year Class Reunion
When? May 23-24, 2007 (Friday & Saturday before Memorial Day)
Where? Lake Village, Arkansas - Chicot County
Why? to reminisce about old times; see how much we've all changed; network, for an alumni association
How? just pay $60 prior to April 1; $75 after April 1, 2008 via check or money order
Make checks payable to: Lakeside Class of 1988
CLASS OF 1988 20TH YEAR CLASS REUNION ACTIVITIES - TENTATIVE SCHEDULE
FRIDAY - MAY 23, 2008
Welcome Reception/Registration Ramada Inn and Motel 7:00 a.m. – 8:30 p.m.
(Cost for this event is included in the registration; classmates are strongly encouraged to bring their children and faculty are welcome.)
Class Fellowship Time TBA 9:00 p.m. – until
(Cost for these activities are NOT included in the registration. Bowling, skating, casino, etc… are available in the area; if class decides on dance instead, cost for the dance will be included in the registration.)
SATURDAY - MAY 24, 2008
Class Breakfast (on your own) McDonald’s 9:00 a.m. – 10:00 a.m.
Class Social Ramada Inn Motel 11:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m.(Spouses, children, faculty, and classmates are encouraged to attend. Games, including volleyball, cards, dominoes, and other activities are planned. Please wear your Class Alumni T-Shirt today.
Class Banquet Lakeside High School Commons Area 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.
(Cost for this event is included in the registration for classmates. If a spouse desire to attend, cost is $20; cost for kids under age 12 is $10; but seating is limited. This event will be catered; no jeans please. Arrive early; be prepared to take class portrait before the banquet. V Pesaresi can provide an 8x10 glossy for $15. During this program we would like to have a memorial moment portion, but need help getting photos of deceased classmates & faculty. Please share any portraits you have; originals will be returned.)
For updates on information, log on to the following websites:
www.classmates.com
www.classreport.org (still under construction)
What we need you to do:
Call at least 3 classmates & encourage them to attend.
Get your registration & the questionnaire in ASAP; help us find classmates that are “missing in action.”
Assist with the fundraiser by ordering at least one ALUMNI t-shirt.
Make a donation for the Scholarship Award that will be presented in May.
19.88 (MINIMUM DONATION, PLEASE )
198.88
1,988.88
Other: ___________
Who? Lakeside Class of 1988
What? 20th Year Class Reunion
When? May 23-24, 2007 (Friday & Saturday before Memorial Day)
Where? Lake Village, Arkansas - Chicot County
Why? to reminisce about old times; see how much we've all changed; network, for an alumni association
How? just pay $60 prior to April 1; $75 after April 1, 2008 via check or money order
Make checks payable to: Lakeside Class of 1988
CLASS OF 1988 20TH YEAR CLASS REUNION ACTIVITIES - TENTATIVE SCHEDULE
FRIDAY - MAY 23, 2008
Welcome Reception/Registration Ramada Inn and Motel 7:00 a.m. – 8:30 p.m.
(Cost for this event is included in the registration; classmates are strongly encouraged to bring their children and faculty are welcome.)
Class Fellowship Time TBA 9:00 p.m. – until
(Cost for these activities are NOT included in the registration. Bowling, skating, casino, etc… are available in the area; if class decides on dance instead, cost for the dance will be included in the registration.)
SATURDAY - MAY 24, 2008
Class Breakfast (on your own) McDonald’s 9:00 a.m. – 10:00 a.m.
Class Social Ramada Inn Motel 11:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m.(Spouses, children, faculty, and classmates are encouraged to attend. Games, including volleyball, cards, dominoes, and other activities are planned. Please wear your Class Alumni T-Shirt today.
Class Banquet Lakeside High School Commons Area 7:00 p.m. – 8:30 p.m.
(Cost for this event is included in the registration for classmates. If a spouse desire to attend, cost is $20; cost for kids under age 12 is $10; but seating is limited. This event will be catered; no jeans please. Arrive early; be prepared to take class portrait before the banquet. V Pesaresi can provide an 8x10 glossy for $15. During this program we would like to have a memorial moment portion, but need help getting photos of deceased classmates & faculty. Please share any portraits you have; originals will be returned.)
For updates on information, log on to the following websites:
www.classmates.com
www.classreport.org (still under construction)
What we need you to do:
Call at least 3 classmates & encourage them to attend.
Get your registration & the questionnaire in ASAP; help us find classmates that are “missing in action.”
Assist with the fundraiser by ordering at least one ALUMNI t-shirt.
Make a donation for the Scholarship Award that will be presented in May.
19.88 (MINIMUM DONATION, PLEASE )
198.88
1,988.88
Other: ___________
December 2007
We come from a time of being thankful (November), and we are entering a period of being a blessing (December). Christmas is one of my favorite times of the year, but I try to act like it's Christmas all year long. People around me are blessed all year, whether it's a birthday, a promotion, an anniversary, or whatever. God has been so good to me. I've been blessed & favored in so many ways.
I admonish everyone reading this to remember the reason for the season-JESUS. To remain grateful in all things-our possessions, our health, our family, our LIFE! Things could be so much worse. Recently I had to park a good distance from my job. The devil was trying to get me to complain, but I quickly remembered that I was blessed because I could walk; I was blessed because I have a job to go to; I was blessed that I have a car to have to park...
Let us do this (remain thankful and grateful), not just during this season of giving and being a blessing, but throughout the year. Since this is a season of giving, I thought I would help give you gift ideas for a woman for Christmas by providing you with my Christmas list:
Memory Book White Summer Suit (might be on clearance)
Punch Bowl/Cake Bowl all in one Nice White Shirts to usher in at church
Gold Bangles - 3/16 inch Body Spray - raspberry, apple, and pear
Haiku cologne matching crock pots - medium size
car seat covers - tan or black 10kt or 14kt gold hoop earrings
money is always good jogging pants - white, orange, blue or black (XL)
big flower pots throw - brown or black chenille to match bed
gift certificate - Wal-Mart, Puff's, Cato's, It's Fashion, Fashion City
Have a very Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year!
I admonish everyone reading this to remember the reason for the season-JESUS. To remain grateful in all things-our possessions, our health, our family, our LIFE! Things could be so much worse. Recently I had to park a good distance from my job. The devil was trying to get me to complain, but I quickly remembered that I was blessed because I could walk; I was blessed because I have a job to go to; I was blessed that I have a car to have to park...
Let us do this (remain thankful and grateful), not just during this season of giving and being a blessing, but throughout the year. Since this is a season of giving, I thought I would help give you gift ideas for a woman for Christmas by providing you with my Christmas list:
Memory Book White Summer Suit (might be on clearance)
Punch Bowl/Cake Bowl all in one Nice White Shirts to usher in at church
Gold Bangles - 3/16 inch Body Spray - raspberry, apple, and pear
Haiku cologne matching crock pots - medium size
car seat covers - tan or black 10kt or 14kt gold hoop earrings
money is always good jogging pants - white, orange, blue or black (XL)
big flower pots throw - brown or black chenille to match bed
gift certificate - Wal-Mart, Puff's, Cato's, It's Fashion, Fashion City
Have a very Merry Christmas & a Happy New Year!
Thursday, November 29, 2007
November 2007
I'm so proud. I've been able to accomplish my goal so far to post at least once a month. This month was a month of Thanksgiving. I have been so blessed.
My husband & I went to Branson, Missouri for the first time this month. Branson was what I had expected and exactly the way people had described it. I was told there were not going to be any or very few members of minority there, i.e. Indians, Mexicans, African-Americans,e tc... We saw 8 I think total and 2 worked at the hotel where we stayed. This did not make me uncomfortable.
We didn't do a whole lot. We had to attend a "timeshare" presentation. It wasn't timeshare, but very similar. The apartments were nice; much nicer than our hotel room. I expected a luxurious hotel setting. It was sorry! If it hadn't been so cheap, I would have requested to leave. The condominiums were really nice-just like a house. One day-maybe, we'll be able to travel like we want, when we want. The food was very reasonable; we had coupons and many restaurants were running 2 for 1 deals; we ate day & night-I mean as soon as we finished breakfast, we were discussing what we were going to have for lunch. We also did a little shopping and just rested. We didn't make it to one single show.
I had a couple of interviews. They were interesting to say the least; both for promotion possibilities. One was just not me. BORING!! Just reading and interpreting laws all day. Not something I think I'd want to do, plus I just didn't feel like I was qualified to do pieces of it. The interview was very inpersonable. It was all on computer or in writing. I thought-whoa! is this PHASE I and used only to weed out those who are really not interested or is this how they do business? I'd had an interview like this before, but there was still initial personal contact. Mind you I got that job. :) I think this is better in regards to recording your skills for the skill assessment piece, but to really get to know a candidate and get a feel if they can work in the office setting with the type of people, really takes extra effort and direct personal contact.
My husband & I went to Branson, Missouri for the first time this month. Branson was what I had expected and exactly the way people had described it. I was told there were not going to be any or very few members of minority there, i.e. Indians, Mexicans, African-Americans,e tc... We saw 8 I think total and 2 worked at the hotel where we stayed. This did not make me uncomfortable.
We didn't do a whole lot. We had to attend a "timeshare" presentation. It wasn't timeshare, but very similar. The apartments were nice; much nicer than our hotel room. I expected a luxurious hotel setting. It was sorry! If it hadn't been so cheap, I would have requested to leave. The condominiums were really nice-just like a house. One day-maybe, we'll be able to travel like we want, when we want. The food was very reasonable; we had coupons and many restaurants were running 2 for 1 deals; we ate day & night-I mean as soon as we finished breakfast, we were discussing what we were going to have for lunch. We also did a little shopping and just rested. We didn't make it to one single show.
I had a couple of interviews. They were interesting to say the least; both for promotion possibilities. One was just not me. BORING!! Just reading and interpreting laws all day. Not something I think I'd want to do, plus I just didn't feel like I was qualified to do pieces of it. The interview was very inpersonable. It was all on computer or in writing. I thought-whoa! is this PHASE I and used only to weed out those who are really not interested or is this how they do business? I'd had an interview like this before, but there was still initial personal contact. Mind you I got that job. :) I think this is better in regards to recording your skills for the skill assessment piece, but to really get to know a candidate and get a feel if they can work in the office setting with the type of people, really takes extra effort and direct personal contact.
Our administrative assistant left this month. I'm really going to miss her. She was in the process of looking for a good church home. I hope she continues her endeavor until she finds one. There's too much going on in life today to not have one. We'll be interviewing in a couple of weeks. I like situational interview questions. The old: can you type, greatest strength stuff doesn't cut it with me. I like to go deeper and see how the person thinks & why they think that way... what would they do in specific situations... what type of boss do they work well with... MOST IMPORTANTLY, why should I hire you out of all the 10-20 applicants I'll talk to!
November was a month to be thankful & grateful. Let December be the month of blessings! Whether you're giving or receiving. Remember when an opportunity comes along for you to be a blessing-CEASE IT!! Sometimes things are placed in your hands to get them to someone. Don't be so selfish and think I don't need or want that . Think of it this way, "Who can I bless with this opportunity?" Be Grateful & Be Blessed!
Friday, October 19, 2007
Why Did I Get Married?
This was a phenomenal movie!! Tyler was right. This was his best yet! I say yet because I expect much more from him. This movie made me laugh and laugh & cry and laugh... It made me think about marriage and why people get married, but more importantly why people stay married-in spite of...
I ask you to:
Go see this movie-buy your ticket early in the day or it will probably be sold out.
DO NOT buy bootleg copies. If I paid $9 to see it-EVERYONE should go see it. It was worth it!
DO NOT give up if the first 5 shows are sold out! You must see this movie.
Let it be a lesson to men-treat your wives with respect and appreciate them.
Let it be a lesson to women-be very very careful who you marry and why.
Let it be another lesson to women-once you are married-don't be quick to give up. Fight til the end and still fight. but when you walk away, make sure you've done all you can do to make it work. Don't leave anything undone so you'll have to "wish I would have" "wish I could have".
Be Blessed!
I ask you to:
Go see this movie-buy your ticket early in the day or it will probably be sold out.
DO NOT buy bootleg copies. If I paid $9 to see it-EVERYONE should go see it. It was worth it!
DO NOT give up if the first 5 shows are sold out! You must see this movie.
Let it be a lesson to men-treat your wives with respect and appreciate them.
Let it be a lesson to women-be very very careful who you marry and why.
Let it be another lesson to women-once you are married-don't be quick to give up. Fight til the end and still fight. but when you walk away, make sure you've done all you can do to make it work. Don't leave anything undone so you'll have to "wish I would have" "wish I could have".
Be Blessed!
Wednesday, October 3, 2007
Hope Restoration Specialist
Gee, it's been awhile since we talked. I think my goal was once a month. If that's true, I am accomplishing that goal. A lot happened last month. Things I remember most are:
Juvenile Justice Conference
a trip to Washington, DC for a Neglected and Delinquent National Meeting
two funerals: one in Kansas City, Missouri and one in Houston, Texas
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You'll notice my new title "Hope Restoration Specialist" - HRS. This was given to me by Dr. Brenda Caldwell-a speaker at the Juvenile Justice Conference. I was so validated and assured that what I do is what I should be doing. She showed a young man his future-graduation, people cheering for him & proud of him-which was quite different from his past. I cried. His name D. Williams. I hope to be able to attend his graduation and be a huge blessing to him; he doesn't know me-I was just one of the hundreds of people in the audience, but I have a responsibility to every CHILD I come in contact with to do what I can-no matter how great or small.
I was e-mailing my cousin in Atlanta. I'm so proud of her. I was just thinking how many people have been in my house. How much my husband and I have sacrificed and given of ourselves. My best friend calls our house M Motel. :) I don't mind that. I''m proud. My house is a vessel for family and friends to accomplish the work God has called them to. I've had two sister-in-laws, 2 of my cousins, 2 of my husband's cousins and their families, and a niece and her 1 yr old nephew to come and LIVE with us. The shortest stay was for 6 weeks. My niece & nephew have been living with us over a year. But I can say they are all success stories. They are taking care of themselves and being a blessing to others. My cousin in Atlanta is able to take care of her mom who recently had a stroke... I feel our sacrifices are paying off.
I think as Christians, you have a responsibility not only to children, but to every PERSON we come in contact with to do WHAT we can-no matter how great or small.
**************************************************************************************************************
My trip to Washington was interesting. I saw a classmate while there. Our 20th class reunion is fast approaching. We deeply discussed the difference between being arrogant and being confident. His defense was weak, but interesting. I explained that I felt the major difference was not seeking relationships for selfish reasons only. Arrogance = thinking what can the person do for me; how would the relationship or conversation benefit me?
Confidence = thinking I can benefit from all relationships & conversations; we can both learn something; He mentioned a friend he would be meeting, bragging of the friends accomplishments, networking capabilities, etc... again BASICALLY what the relationship with the guy could do for him. His defense was why would I hang with someone who's not doing anything or accomplishing anything. Yeah, yeah, yeah, if you want to be an eagle, soar with them... True, but don't devalue your role in the life of the chicken. What do you think?
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The funerals I attended were both good experiences and further confirmed my title as a Hope Restoration Specialist (HRS); The first in Kansas City was awesome. The whole weekend and experience was awesome. We began Friday night with awesome praise & worship. It was like a person concert by a family member. We cried and praised. I was full-no overflowing. Trish's voice was so calming. She was truly anointed. The funeral was truly a celebration of Mae's life. A recording artist gave songs of praise and worship. There was a slide show of photos. It was wonderful. Mae gave a "sermon" at a family reunion in New Orleans a few years back. It was a "light bulb" moment for me and many gathered that night. She talked about Choices Decisions & Consequences (CDC). I knew everything she was saying, but it didn't really come together until I heard her say it. Sometimes we need to fast forward & look at the consequences and decide if that's the outcome we desire or decide if we can handle them.
The other funeral was in Houston. They talked about how she installed values in her children that emphasized family and being responsible. I remember giving her a ride during a family reunion held locally. This ride was only about 15 minutes, but I could tell she was full of wisdom. In all our conversations, I never heard her speak negatively about anyone or gossip about anyone. That's definitely a unique characteristic. She was soft spoken, but when she did speak, you probably should listen. Reminds me of my mother...
Well, I'd better go. Talk to you later.
Juvenile Justice Conference
a trip to Washington, DC for a Neglected and Delinquent National Meeting
two funerals: one in Kansas City, Missouri and one in Houston, Texas
***************************************************************************************
You'll notice my new title "Hope Restoration Specialist" - HRS. This was given to me by Dr. Brenda Caldwell-a speaker at the Juvenile Justice Conference. I was so validated and assured that what I do is what I should be doing. She showed a young man his future-graduation, people cheering for him & proud of him-which was quite different from his past. I cried. His name D. Williams. I hope to be able to attend his graduation and be a huge blessing to him; he doesn't know me-I was just one of the hundreds of people in the audience, but I have a responsibility to every CHILD I come in contact with to do what I can-no matter how great or small.
I was e-mailing my cousin in Atlanta. I'm so proud of her. I was just thinking how many people have been in my house. How much my husband and I have sacrificed and given of ourselves. My best friend calls our house M Motel. :) I don't mind that. I''m proud. My house is a vessel for family and friends to accomplish the work God has called them to. I've had two sister-in-laws, 2 of my cousins, 2 of my husband's cousins and their families, and a niece and her 1 yr old nephew to come and LIVE with us. The shortest stay was for 6 weeks. My niece & nephew have been living with us over a year. But I can say they are all success stories. They are taking care of themselves and being a blessing to others. My cousin in Atlanta is able to take care of her mom who recently had a stroke... I feel our sacrifices are paying off.
I think as Christians, you have a responsibility not only to children, but to every PERSON we come in contact with to do WHAT we can-no matter how great or small.
**************************************************************************************************************
My trip to Washington was interesting. I saw a classmate while there. Our 20th class reunion is fast approaching. We deeply discussed the difference between being arrogant and being confident. His defense was weak, but interesting. I explained that I felt the major difference was not seeking relationships for selfish reasons only. Arrogance = thinking what can the person do for me; how would the relationship or conversation benefit me?
Confidence = thinking I can benefit from all relationships & conversations; we can both learn something; He mentioned a friend he would be meeting, bragging of the friends accomplishments, networking capabilities, etc... again BASICALLY what the relationship with the guy could do for him. His defense was why would I hang with someone who's not doing anything or accomplishing anything. Yeah, yeah, yeah, if you want to be an eagle, soar with them... True, but don't devalue your role in the life of the chicken. What do you think?
*************************************************************************************************************
The funerals I attended were both good experiences and further confirmed my title as a Hope Restoration Specialist (HRS); The first in Kansas City was awesome. The whole weekend and experience was awesome. We began Friday night with awesome praise & worship. It was like a person concert by a family member. We cried and praised. I was full-no overflowing. Trish's voice was so calming. She was truly anointed. The funeral was truly a celebration of Mae's life. A recording artist gave songs of praise and worship. There was a slide show of photos. It was wonderful. Mae gave a "sermon" at a family reunion in New Orleans a few years back. It was a "light bulb" moment for me and many gathered that night. She talked about Choices Decisions & Consequences (CDC). I knew everything she was saying, but it didn't really come together until I heard her say it. Sometimes we need to fast forward & look at the consequences and decide if that's the outcome we desire or decide if we can handle them.
The other funeral was in Houston. They talked about how she installed values in her children that emphasized family and being responsible. I remember giving her a ride during a family reunion held locally. This ride was only about 15 minutes, but I could tell she was full of wisdom. In all our conversations, I never heard her speak negatively about anyone or gossip about anyone. That's definitely a unique characteristic. She was soft spoken, but when she did speak, you probably should listen. Reminds me of my mother...
Well, I'd better go. Talk to you later.
Tuesday, September 4, 2007
Family
This is the day the Lord hath made. I will rejoice & be glad in it. Praise the Lord! I had a good weekend. It's going to be a busy week. I'll have to get my mom's car fixed, exchange vehicles, pick up my nephew, prepare to attend a conference tomorrow, cook, & unpack from the weekend, start packing to travel to Kansas City on Thursday for a funeral. The weekend was just as packed. They say such a busy life extends your life. Keeps you busy, your mind & body active.
Things I learned over the weekend: Further evidence that it is truly a small world. I attended a family reunion on my husband's grandmother's side this weekend-this was my 4th this year. Everyone that knows me knows that I believe in attending family reunions-whether for me or my "extended" family. My husband great aunt Rebecca told me that she is not an in-law & neither am I. I've been blessed with wonderful "in-laws". My sister-in-laws are just like my sisters. Bear with me, remember I'm new at this blogging thing. Getting back to what I was talking about, his cousin, Cheryl who lives in Warren is my college classmate. His other cousin is his cousin's classmate. One cousin who he just met used to work with him a year ago-their great grandmothers were sisters. My friend, Carolyn, who was at a water park this weekend, met my cousins...
Get the point? The bottom line is that we're "related", connected, or whatever you want to call it in some shape, form, or fashion. Another thing I learned is that family does not necessarily have to be a "blood relative". I had to proof a college paper this morning & this was the subject. The paper explained that family can be a friend or even a church member. It further explained that you can not choose your "blood" relatives, but you can choose who you decide will be your "extended family". I am so blessed to have such a wonderful group of people-blood relatives, friends, co-workers, and church members-that I can call family.
Things I learned over the weekend: Further evidence that it is truly a small world. I attended a family reunion on my husband's grandmother's side this weekend-this was my 4th this year. Everyone that knows me knows that I believe in attending family reunions-whether for me or my "extended" family. My husband great aunt Rebecca told me that she is not an in-law & neither am I. I've been blessed with wonderful "in-laws". My sister-in-laws are just like my sisters. Bear with me, remember I'm new at this blogging thing. Getting back to what I was talking about, his cousin, Cheryl who lives in Warren is my college classmate. His other cousin is his cousin's classmate. One cousin who he just met used to work with him a year ago-their great grandmothers were sisters. My friend, Carolyn, who was at a water park this weekend, met my cousins...
Get the point? The bottom line is that we're "related", connected, or whatever you want to call it in some shape, form, or fashion. Another thing I learned is that family does not necessarily have to be a "blood relative". I had to proof a college paper this morning & this was the subject. The paper explained that family can be a friend or even a church member. It further explained that you can not choose your "blood" relatives, but you can choose who you decide will be your "extended family". I am so blessed to have such a wonderful group of people-blood relatives, friends, co-workers, and church members-that I can call family.
Friday, August 31, 2007
August 31, 2007
This is the day the Lord hath made; I will rejoice & be glad in it.
This is my first blog. looniec was my inspiration. My goal right now is to blog once a month. I bet that sounds terrible, but I wanted to have a goal that was obtainable. :\ At any rate, I don't have a lot to say today. As I said this is my very first blog. My day is going great. Today is the Friday before Labor Day, we got paid today, I'm going to see my mom & sister, I'm off Monday ... What more could I ask?
In all things be grateful!
This is my first blog. looniec was my inspiration. My goal right now is to blog once a month. I bet that sounds terrible, but I wanted to have a goal that was obtainable. :\ At any rate, I don't have a lot to say today. As I said this is my very first blog. My day is going great. Today is the Friday before Labor Day, we got paid today, I'm going to see my mom & sister, I'm off Monday ... What more could I ask?
In all things be grateful!
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